reality slap

its funny being a realist. I think its funny. Becos I am one. A realist, I mean. And the funniest part is that, you get all dreamy and still be able to distinguished the dream and the reality and with a snap of the finger, you're back as the realist, when for awhile ago, you were soaring up high, dreaming of something.

unfortunately for realists, they are practical. And as much as dreams may come true for some people, realistically speaking, life is about being practical. so, its hard for them to dream. They often relate it to practicality and dreaming, ain't nowhere near to being practical.

so, we realists, often give ourselves reality slaps. becos, as much as we would want to dream, its the reality that kicks in for a clear perspective.

but having said (or written) all these, if things are doable in real life, if it can be adjusted in reality, some dreams can be achievable, its just that, they're no longer dreams. hence, it all becomes practical, doable, acceptable and comprehendable in life. and looking back, it will no longer considered a dream, just an ambition. an ambition one have less confident in the beginning, thinking it was a dream, but managed to find ways and how bout to achieve it.

so, a realist that I am, I believe highly on being practical, and having confidence in what I can personally do. And right now, love is partly a dream not considered as a priority in my plans, and realistically speaking, life is a lot more if you learn to love yourself first. at least that is not a dream. becos you will reciprocate and you will never disappoint yourself.