sense that doesn't come commonly these days
I was awaken by the sound of my handphone this morning. An incoming message.
"Mornin sis..its ___..i hv smthin 2 share wit u..i hvnt tell a soul yet.."
after tossing, turning, being annoyed to be interrupted, with my morning voice and half-closed eyes, I grabbed my line phone and called her. a certain joy felt from the other end of the line and she bursted out "I've met my soulmate!!! He just proposed and we're getting married!!! Will you come???"
flattered, honoured and a proud *cough* sister, with my half asleep, half awaken voice, I congratulated her. Reason she told me was that she needed some sense for this overnight decision and she know she can get it out from me.
sense. sense is not a common thing these days. who, in this fast-developing life, is sensible enough?
I have had a funny and weird couple of months. I've encountered people who doesn't really respect the friendship they have, who doesn't really appreciate the exclusivity of individual friendship they share. I broke up with my ex and have to see pictures of a former friend posing topless with a bareback towards the camera 2 weeks later in the name of art. I myself wouldn't care less about it, but I was just disturbed with the fact that being uploaded online for public to see, with a justification of "I need not explain myself" from the other party. I personally respect the friendship I had previously with both of them, but I just don't understand how wanting to be seclusive and private will lead to not respecting relationships you have, even if its just mere friendship.
sense and sensibility. I never read that book. The only Jane Austen I consume myself to is the teleseries back in the 90s, which had Colin Firth as the original Mr. Darcy.
Senses are the physiological methods of perception. The senses and their operation, classification, and theory are overlapping topics studied by a variety of fields, most notably neuroscience, cognitive psychology (or cognitive science), and philosophy of perception. The nervous system has a sensory system dedicated to each sense. (Source from Wikipedia)
Common sense (or, when used attributively as an adjective, commonsense, common-sense, or commonsensical), based on a strict construction of the term, consists of what people in common would agree on: that which they "sense" (in common) as their common natural understanding. The phrase is often used to refer to beliefs or propositions that — in their opinion — most people would consider prudent and of sound judgment, without dependence upon esoteric knowledge or study or research, but based upon what they see as knowledge held by people "in common". Thus "common sense" (in this view) equates to the knowledge and experience which most people allegedly have, or which the person using the term believes that they do or should have. (Source from Wikipedia)
This morning, I started work, and read a message from a loved one who was spilling his disappointment on some matters. Although those who caused this have been living happily with their lovely life, I know its sad to know that we kept on dwelling on this. But it just prove how much more humane we are compared to them. Me, myself, I am a person who respect my friends and the friendship I've built. Living a single life for so long, I've somewhat pledged myself to meeting the needs of my friends. I love them to bits and I respect everything I share with them. And I try my best to accommodate to their emotional needs rather than material. I don't ditch and fuck a one or two years old of friendship just for the reason of "what do you care, you have other friends right, you don't own me". Even with my hundreds of friends, I respect my exclusive individual friendship with all of them. Once trust has been developed, indirectly, you have made a commitment to be faithful and loyal to your friendship.
At the end of the day, people will see me as the single losing spinster who will always be confused and not find love.
But for me, I have everything I needed today. I have loved so much and I have more to give. I have faith from friends who love me for the person I was, the person I have become and the person I will be. I will always have hugs in store for me from friends, sincere kisses on my cheeks and trust and faith on my future. I have a family who supports me. I have a very conducive working environment that I beginning to love, a good job and most of all, good head on my shoulders and the best loving heart in my chest.
where's the sense in all of these? common sense is about being practical and realistic and thats me. its also about courtesy and respect and thats what I believe in.
where's the sense in love? sense in love is like opening your eyes when you kiss someone.
question is, do you always do that?
"Mornin sis..its ___..i hv smthin 2 share wit u..i hvnt tell a soul yet.."
after tossing, turning, being annoyed to be interrupted, with my morning voice and half-closed eyes, I grabbed my line phone and called her. a certain joy felt from the other end of the line and she bursted out "I've met my soulmate!!! He just proposed and we're getting married!!! Will you come???"
flattered, honoured and a proud *cough* sister, with my half asleep, half awaken voice, I congratulated her. Reason she told me was that she needed some sense for this overnight decision and she know she can get it out from me.
sense. sense is not a common thing these days. who, in this fast-developing life, is sensible enough?
I have had a funny and weird couple of months. I've encountered people who doesn't really respect the friendship they have, who doesn't really appreciate the exclusivity of individual friendship they share. I broke up with my ex and have to see pictures of a former friend posing topless with a bareback towards the camera 2 weeks later in the name of art. I myself wouldn't care less about it, but I was just disturbed with the fact that being uploaded online for public to see, with a justification of "I need not explain myself" from the other party. I personally respect the friendship I had previously with both of them, but I just don't understand how wanting to be seclusive and private will lead to not respecting relationships you have, even if its just mere friendship.
sense and sensibility. I never read that book. The only Jane Austen I consume myself to is the teleseries back in the 90s, which had Colin Firth as the original Mr. Darcy.
Senses are the physiological methods of perception. The senses and their operation, classification, and theory are overlapping topics studied by a variety of fields, most notably neuroscience, cognitive psychology (or cognitive science), and philosophy of perception. The nervous system has a sensory system dedicated to each sense. (Source from Wikipedia)
Common sense (or, when used attributively as an adjective, commonsense, common-sense, or commonsensical), based on a strict construction of the term, consists of what people in common would agree on: that which they "sense" (in common) as their common natural understanding. The phrase is often used to refer to beliefs or propositions that — in their opinion — most people would consider prudent and of sound judgment, without dependence upon esoteric knowledge or study or research, but based upon what they see as knowledge held by people "in common". Thus "common sense" (in this view) equates to the knowledge and experience which most people allegedly have, or which the person using the term believes that they do or should have. (Source from Wikipedia)
This morning, I started work, and read a message from a loved one who was spilling his disappointment on some matters. Although those who caused this have been living happily with their lovely life, I know its sad to know that we kept on dwelling on this. But it just prove how much more humane we are compared to them. Me, myself, I am a person who respect my friends and the friendship I've built. Living a single life for so long, I've somewhat pledged myself to meeting the needs of my friends. I love them to bits and I respect everything I share with them. And I try my best to accommodate to their emotional needs rather than material. I don't ditch and fuck a one or two years old of friendship just for the reason of "what do you care, you have other friends right, you don't own me". Even with my hundreds of friends, I respect my exclusive individual friendship with all of them. Once trust has been developed, indirectly, you have made a commitment to be faithful and loyal to your friendship.
At the end of the day, people will see me as the single losing spinster who will always be confused and not find love.
But for me, I have everything I needed today. I have loved so much and I have more to give. I have faith from friends who love me for the person I was, the person I have become and the person I will be. I will always have hugs in store for me from friends, sincere kisses on my cheeks and trust and faith on my future. I have a family who supports me. I have a very conducive working environment that I beginning to love, a good job and most of all, good head on my shoulders and the best loving heart in my chest.
where's the sense in all of these? common sense is about being practical and realistic and thats me. its also about courtesy and respect and thats what I believe in.
where's the sense in love? sense in love is like opening your eyes when you kiss someone.
question is, do you always do that?
posted by *cosmic freak* @ 10:26 AM
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